S2E4: Using Affirmations to Shift Your Mindset and Achieve Goals

S2E4: Using Affirmations to Shift Your Mindset and Achieve Goals

On this episode, I walk through my daily affirmation writing process and how it helps me a) orient my mindset for the day and b) envision and work toward big-picture goals.

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S2E3: 5 Tips for Navigating Change

S2E3: 5 Tips for Navigating Change

Change is hard. In this episode, I explore five ways to make it easier, and the resources that have helped me get more comfortable navigating change.

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S2E2: The Benefits of Consistency

S2E2: The Benefits of Consistency

In this episode, I talk about how developing consistent, daily habits has changed my life for the better. I cover:

  • 6 tangible benefits I’ve seen from developing a habit practice
  • The habits I do every day, + 2 habits I aspire to do daily
  • The tools and resources I use to stay consistent and accountable

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S2E1: Back in Black

S2E1: Back in Black

After a four-year hiatus, I have finally begun recording episodes of the HTBC podcast again. This is just a quick update on where I’ve been, as well as a few changes for Season 2, namely:

  • No guests: These episodes are a significant lift to plan, record, and edit—and my solo episodes tend to perform better.
  • No intro/outro: I always skip over these on every podcast I listen to. I’m aware that it may make things sound less professional, but I’m a DIY girlie at heart and this gets you to the actual point of the episode faster and without having to figure out the exact right combination of forward 30 seconds/back 15 seconds to do so.
  • More focus on actionable advice: The title of this podcast is pretty service-y in nature, so that’s what I’m trying to bring to more episodes. A lot of these will be about clearing away mental drama, harmful self-identities, and negative stories you’re telling yourself so that you can actually do the creative things you say you want to do.

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6 things I’m doing to hit the reset button in 2024

6 things I’m doing to hit the reset button in 2024

1. Dry Winter!

I try to do Dry January every year, but last year I extended it to mid March and discovered that I was able to completely skip over my usual Seasonal Affective Disorder. I’d like this to be become my new annual tradition. 

Bonus that even moderate alcohol use causes brain damage, and the only way to reverse it is through 2-6 months of total sobriety (source: Huberman Lab podcast).

2. Getting back into daily meditation.

I use Headspace but whatever you’ll stick with is good. This is the first time meditation has felt easy for me. I’m only doing 5 minutes a day to start and will work my way up. Walking meditation counts!

3. Doing something creative every day.

Working on a friendship bracelet, making alcohol-ink art, posting something on Instagram—even the smallest creative tasks count. The other night I made a lanyard while watching The Mentalist.

4. Regular exercise.

I injured myself six weeks ago and am just getting back into my daily workout classes. When I don’t feel up to a class, I take a walk outside

5. Keeping up with my journals.

I use one for daily affirmation writing + general thoughts and reflection (a Muji notebook that costs like $3.50; have used and replaced this for years) and another for goal setting (the Lavendaire Artist of Life Workbook—this is the third year I’ve bought this)

6. Making plans with friends outside of the people I see regularly.

This usually takes a lot of energy for me, but I find that when I’m not drinking alcohol my life feels slower and quieter and therefore more restful, so I have more social energy for people outside of my inner circle.

4 sustainable rituals I’ve incorporated into my week

4 sustainable rituals I’ve incorporated into my week

Real talk: I am very bad at being consistent. I can commit to doing something daily for, like, a week before I inevitably miss a day and never pick it back up. (The lone exception is the New York Times Crossword; my streak is 525 as of this writing.) But recently, I’ve been putting more of an effort into developing little rituals that make my life feel more luxurious, which I’m finding is much easier than developing habits like, “Wake up at 6:30 every day.” Here they are:

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2023 Word of the Year: Revenge

2023 Word of the Year: Revenge

I’m very sorry and extremely pleased to report that my word for 2023 will be REVENGE. This is a no-backsies situation, as I’ve already ordered a custom necklace from gorjana with my WOTY engraved on it.

I spent both a lot of time and no time at all landing on revenge as my word of the year. At first, I was planning to repeat insouciance, my 2022 word, as I’ve been insufficiently insouciant this year. But after using “optimism” as a repeat WOTY in 2021 after 2020 panned out not so great, I couldn’t really stomach another repeat. (I mean, you do remember how 2021 turned out?)

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New Year’s Resolutions 2023

New Year’s Resolutions 2023

In the Before Times, I set New Year’s Resolutions every December and tracked my success against them for some portion of the following year. I tried to revisit this practice last year, but failed early and miserably. Fast forward to December 2022, where I’ve decided that I am finally ready to turn back into a goal-oriented person who can imagine a future beyond the next month. Let’s see how it goes!

Here’s what I have planned for 2023:

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